In Between Places

I guess I'll start by saying that this would be my worst nightmare. I'm in my late twenties living with my parents and in extreme debt. Fortunately for me, I'm not that irresponsible.

Unlike the other essay authors who were usually not to blame for their circumstances. It was something they were born with, something that occurred early on in their life. It seems, though, for the author of 'In Between Places' that her predicaments are purely her own fault. Perhaps her parents can shoulder some blame for giving her too much financial independence -- or maybe not. It just seems that ten-thousand dollars of debt to your parents by the time you are in your late twenties is a bit severe.

As far as the writing, and the story in general, it was well written, but the author seemed so transfixed on her circumstances that she didn't have any time to realize that it was all her fault. A trip to Mexico, chairs and pillows for an invisible apartment; It just seems to me that no matter what she did as an early adult she could not make the correct financial decisions. To go with the old saying, "You made your bed, now sleep in it."

The expression goes so well for this girl. She's made all these decisions with money that have put her into the situation of having to live with her parents, and now she sits, ashamed and saddened about her life, or lack thereof.

I couldn't relate to this story at all. Perhaps it's because I think I'm much smarter with money than the author and I could never see myself in that situation. The only time I would move back in with my parents was if (as the author mentioned) I was trying to save for an apartment or condo.

The essay is a sad one, but I have no sympathy for the author... That sounds so cold, but it's true.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. Can you relate to the author or do you feel you are much smarter when it comes to your financial situation?

2. Do you think the stereotype of "Kidults" or "Boomerangers" is one that is unfair or unwarranted?